Assalamualaikum warahmatullah
Do you smack your children?
If so, where abouts?
Do you feel terrible afterwards?
Does your husband smack the children?
Were you smacked as a child?
By which parent?
The reason I am asking is I find that my husband gives Z a hard smack on his bottom lately and I dont like it It is normally for answering back or not listening after being told to do something many times. I just don't want to be a smacky mother subhanallaah and am seeking an alternative? My husband has always smacked him, and doesn't think he would not inshallaah. I was smacked by both parents, my husband was smacked by his mum more and only remembers one occasion when his father smacked his brother (early teens) over something really bad.